There is never a proper time to lose a parent. My father was no exception. I grew to appreciate him more and more the older I got – especailly his perspective on how to live life. He had this awesome sense of humor and I can still hear him laughing. The thing about my dad is that he, unlike anyone else, just got me in the ways that most people dont – not only did he get me, but he got a kick out of my quirks, which just made it ok to be exactly who I am.

Lessons my father taught me
In loving memory of Allen Rudolph
A man whose wit and wisdom made a lasting impression

• You should never be too old to giggle or to wonder what you’ll be when you grow up.
• The easiest way to ruin chocolate is to add fruit or nuts.
• Things don’t matter, people do. But that doesn’t mean that things arent good to have.
• You can really concentrate better if you sitck out your tongue.
• Reaching the goal is not as important as the lessons you learn during the pursuit.
• Never attempt any job without the right tools.
• Health and happiness are priceless.
• If you can’t decide between two items, don’t look at the price tag. Look at the difference between the two prices.
• A man on a galloping horse never notices much of anything.
• Each child has it’s own needs and a parent gives accordingly.
• Education is the greatest gift you can give your children.
• When in doubt, err on the side of integrity.
• It’s a great feeling to be the first kid on your block with the latest in technolothy.
• Be proud of your family and your heritage.
• Even if the words “I love you” skip a generation, the feelings don’t.
• Give your children wings to follow their dreams and they’ll eventually fly home to you.
• Ask challenging questions. If someone assumes you don’t want a birthday party say, “I don’t? Why don’t I?”
• A good sense of humor is an important asset.
• You can be grown with children of your own and still rely on your dad.